Hi everyone Mistie Heart here! Welcome to my weekly blog post. I will be each week writing about a new model I have interviewed. I have a series of questions that I will be sending the model and then posting their responses. My goal with this is to bring attention to BBW sex workers as well as bring a sense of humanity to the sex industry as whole. I hope this will help you get to know these women individually as well as more about the sex industry and what goes into being a sex worker. This week I have interviewed the lovely Fuchsia Peach pictured in the featured image and at the bottom of this post. Please also see the bottom of the post for her links and information on finding her and purchasing her content. And in spirit of this I now present to you a look inside the beginning Fuchsia Peach.
Mistie Heart: What made you decide to get into digital sex work?
Fuchsia Peach: I remember in middle school I told some of my classmates that one day I wanted to try stripping. That didn’t go over so well. I’ve wanted to do some sort of sex work for a very long time, the excitement and exploration calls to me. A few years ago, I had close friends offer encouragement to try it, and remaining in the digital side of sex work provides a sense of safety and privacy that appeals to me.
Mistie Heart: How did you choose your stage name?
Fuchsia Peach: When I was picking my name, I wanted something cool and feminine, especially in a written format. My favorite color is purple! But that doesn’t quite sound as nice as fuchsia. And my favorite flavor is peach. The two together sounded cool and the name stuck!
Mistie Heart: Do you cam? If so, how did you feel while you were getting ready to get online for the first time?
Fuchsia Peach: I remember the first-time camming live, it was on one of those big sites with tons of traffic. I was so terrified before I went on, I desperately hoped not to get any oral requests because my nerves had made me feel so queasy. But once I logged on, and people started entering my chat, I felt exhilaration as I started getting compliments and shows! It made me feel confident, daring, and sexy.
Mistie Heart: Tell me about the first time you received money and how it made you feel?
Fuchsia Peach: When I got my first check for sex work, I felt so proud and accomplished that I had done it. I also felt incredibly naughty and satisfied, holding the conquests from my secret life!
Mistie Heart: What was the first thing you spent your money on?
Fuchsia Peach: The first thing I bought was a sex toy! I bought a purple vibrating butt plug, I still love it so much!
Mistie Heart: Do the people in your vanilla life know what you do? If so how did you tell them?
Fuchsia Peach: About a month ago I told my mom that I do sex work online, and I’m so happy I opened to her about it! We live in different states, so I told her over the phone. She was incredibly supportive and showed a great deal of curiosity about it. I feel so grateful for the close relationship we have, and I feel that telling her strengthened our bond because there’s no longer this big secret looming over me. I’m not out to most people in my life, but my mom and some people close to me know.
Mistie Heart: Tell me about the emotions you felt the first time you recorded a video…
Fuchsia Peach: I felt both excited arousal, to be doing something so naughty, and a curious sense of problem solving. I was so new I was still figuring out how to get the right shots, lighting and such
Mistie Heart: To this day do you have a preference in what you do? i.e. clip sites, premium snapchat, and or camming?
Fuchsia Peach: I always go back and forth when I’m asked this, between camming and custom vids. The connection that camming brings is so satisfying, but I also love my custom videos, and the creativity it brings me! Right now, as I’m writing I’m in a very creative mood, so I’m in the mood more for custom videos!
Mistie Heart: How long would like to continue to be a digital sex worker?
Fuchsia Peach: I’m totally unsure, maybe five years at the most but who knows really? I’ll stop when it stops being fun and fulfilling so it may be longer!
Mistie Heart: What do you love most about it?
Fuchsia Peach: The connection I get interacting with clients makes me feel so fulfilled and bonded, getting to know people in such an intimate way. I also love getting to be so imaginative, I have a real creative streak so digital sex work is perfect for me!
Mistie Heart: What do you hate most about it?
Fuchsia Peach: Sometimes people seem entitled to free things because I’m friendly. I love making friends, but it’s important to still support me and the work I do. If you wouldn’t expect your dentist friend to give you a free root canal, don’t expect free sexy time from me!
Mistie Heart: Give me your thoughts on being a BBW in a digital sex worker world where you are often forced to compete or made to believe you must compete with smaller girls
Fuchsia Peach: I’ve never felt I had to compete. I understand that as a BBW I’m niche, I’m just a different category from the smaller girls and that’s okay. My strategy has been to find my niche, BBW BDSM submissive with a streak of girlfriend experience. And rather than competition, I’ve found incredible support from other sex workers, both BBW and smaller. We’re a team and look out for one another!
Mistie Heart: What is the #1 misconception about digital sex workers you want people to stop believing? In your opinion.
Fuchsia Peach: That because we’re on social media and friendly it means we’re okay giving away our work for free. I’ve had people that I just started talking to tell me that they’re different and don’t need to pay, it’s not flattering. It makes me feel devalued and annoyed.
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